I'm not there? And I can hear you hyperventilating.
Four months is plenty of time, don't worry. When I got married? I realized at the last minute that I had no food. Nothing. I chose a menu and got a caterer four days beforehand. You're safe, trust me.
But--we're doing the Paris thing!! This takes planning! You can't just throw things together at the last minute. Can you?
Claire and I are going tomorrow to dress shop and get ideas for floral arrangements and the like. I have a loose guest list which is shockingly fifty people, exactly. Should I roundup a little? Just in case people I didn't anticipate having dates have dates?
No, you can't, but you can save your own ass right up until the last second. Point is, baby girl, four months is PLENTY of time.
Annie told me she IM-ed you last night and mentioned some of that. You and Claire pick dresses, work on bridesmaids first and don't worry about public opinion. You need to spend more time on your own dress, that's gonna be the hardest one. Rounding up is good for the guest list, you can't go wrong.
For what it's worth, babycakes, we can help over here. Anything you find in Vegas, you can surely find in New York, and we can ship whatever we have to, place orders in other locations, send pictures via phone...long-distance help IS available. Just don't freak out, you're not alone in the planning, okay?
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Date: 2009-01-15 04:33 pm (UTC)Four months is plenty of time, don't worry. When I got married? I realized at the last minute that I had no food. Nothing. I chose a menu and got a caterer four days beforehand. You're safe, trust me.
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Date: 2009-01-15 05:17 pm (UTC)Claire and I are going tomorrow to dress shop and get ideas for floral arrangements and the like. I have a loose guest list which is shockingly fifty people, exactly. Should I roundup a little? Just in case people I didn't anticipate having dates have dates?
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Date: 2009-01-15 05:23 pm (UTC)Annie told me she IM-ed you last night and mentioned some of that. You and Claire pick dresses, work on bridesmaids first and don't worry about public opinion. You need to spend more time on your own dress, that's gonna be the hardest one. Rounding up is good for the guest list, you can't go wrong.
For what it's worth, babycakes, we can help over here. Anything you find in Vegas, you can surely find in New York, and we can ship whatever we have to, place orders in other locations, send pictures via phone...long-distance help IS available. Just don't freak out, you're not alone in the planning, okay?
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Date: 2009-01-15 05:38 pm (UTC)I'm glam now, really. I swear.